Wednesday, March 28, 2007

What makes my world go round!!!!

This is a challenge/question posted on the site LIITD, where I put all of my scrapbooking pages. This question isn't one I even had to think about,a s I knew the answer instantly.


Now, while my husband would say it was my dog Dory...he knows that really it is him. No matter what occurs in my life, everything is better if Trent is there. When I am going through something terribel, all he had to do is walk in the room and I feel better. I truely think that I would not feel like a whole person without him!!!!!!!!!!! He has a way of balancing me out ans also making me feel safe and confortable. I would have a different life if I hadn't meant Trent, and I am grateful that I did.

In the past 6 months I had a horrible experience with a failed pregnancy..a blighted ovum to be exact. It is where a sac grows but a baby does not grow in it. I (as was Trent) was devestated to find out at 3 months that there was no baby at all, and there never was. Especially, when we were getting the ultrasound to see if we were having two babies or one...and find out there was no baby at all! The situation spiraled from there, where I needed to have 2 d&c's to for the same pregnancy and then it took 3 or more months for my body to heal. The idea of being able to have chilren was quickly fading for me as I thought that something was terribly wrong and I could feel depression starting to set. If Trent hadn't been there to dry the tears, and have the patience to deal with the randomness of when they came I don't know if I would have recovered as well as I did. He was always there for reassurance, comfort and support. He was hurting too, and yet he put me first to help me deal with what I was feeling. Though this was the worst experience we have had together, he was there to make it better, as he is with the everyday trials of life as well. He is the love of my life!!!! It is Trent that makes my world do around. HEHEHE, and Dory is a close second(joking).

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Awe!! Sorry to hear about your trials and tribulations. It's always hard when things like that happen. Isn't great to have someone whom you love, love you right back and be there for you?

Kim -today's creative blog said...

awww Vicky, what a horrible thing to go through as a couple. I so sorry. Beautiful photo of you two.

Keep the faith.....you will be pregnant soon enough. Have fun practicing. :)

sugarplum14 said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles! I am, however, glad to hear that your husband makes your world go 'round, and that he was there for you during those hard times! Like the others said, don't let it get you down, keep trying ;) Best of luck!

Scrappytbear said...

awwwwwwww ALLLL TEARY HERE! That's really really nice! Not the bad stuff, but the stuff that's making you guys really strong together! AWwwww!